What you have here is a chunk of my life, and yes, I'm dating. I say this to make one point clear: no, I haven't yet found him, but I'm doing the best I can. No matter what happens-I'm never giving up. I'm not talking only dating here. Let me explain.

If you've landed on my website, you're a woman—or a man—of a certain age. You're thinking about how the natural order of things didn't quite turn out the way you expected. Whether you're divorced or widowed, life isn't supposed to be like this. After all, we've hit the middle ages, so all should be tranquil right about now. Settled. Who needs to struggle through a second adolescence. And who needs another heyday of dating? It was confusing enough the first time around.